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Leave it alone. Plural. Protective. It's ironic if you're giving us speech that we still out Hear you. I hear a. United v United v. That v. That you. That you're. Now you hear? Jennifer? Yes. She won't smile either. Look at those. She almost smiled, almost like, Are you going to smile? Are you going to smile? I mean, sisters. Sisters. The other thing is that girl is serious. Just the way you get. You lost a minute of your show. I'm going to say. City line told the mother Time care home. It's 12 noon. We're live on City Line. And to all the mothers out there, happy Mother's Day. Hi, I'm Jackie. And I'm Betty Bentley. Happy Mother's Day to you. Thank you. Involved the relationship. How can you tell if it's love or sex? What if it is solely sexual? Can your emotions handle it if it is love? But what happens when the person in the end, when one person in a relationship thinks it's love while the other is concerned, all of your sex and relationships work? Well, One thing we'll try to do is talk, and then we'll answer all of your questions and more. Hello, I'm Tim. On to you now. Newscast. We explore the roots of black participation in Maryland's horse racing industry. Hi, Harold Anthony with you. And on this week's edition of the Entertainment Page, it's a quartet who offer that smooth, sexy and harmonic sound. Stay tuned for the controllers up on today's edition of the Entertainment Page. Join us as we try to discuss love or sex with Dr. Gwendolyn Goldsby, grant advice columnist and consultant, psychologist for Essence magazine. Silly line invites you to participate, call in and ask your questions about your relationship.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://marmia.aviaryplatform.com/collections/948/collection_resources/105501/file/206262#t=0.15,233.05"},{"id":"https://marmia.aviaryplatform.com/collections/948/collection_resources/105501/file/206262/transcript/48916/annotation/2","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"Is it love or sex? Up next, live on City Line. Well, welcome to City Line. So many people have been waiting for this show. In fact, I've had friends who've called in already to ask questions of me and I have no answers for them. But we do have an expert here who's going to answer all your questions about is it love or is it sex? Dr. Gwendolyn Goldsby Grant, welcome. Thank you. Get out of here, Mother. Now, you are a media psychologist. You are a certified sex therapist. Does that mean you have all of the answers concerning is it love or is it sex? Yes. And all the answers are in Essence magazine, by the way, I write the advice column and being a certified sex counselor and one of the few African-American women, females who is certified in this field, You all hear from Dr. Ruth, right? Well, here's Dr. Gwendolyn and. And I'm good in my field with great, good. We're going to put you to the test today. All right. What's the most frequently asked question? Is there one? I have a radio show in New Jersey. I'm from Newark, New Jersey, and I have a show called Live two till five in the morning. And of course, we can ask all kinds of questions because the children are asleep. One of the questions, one of the things that always come out or women are always talking about men perceive their touch as sexual when they want to be hugged. I think it was Ann Landers who said something about she did a study and it was very controversial about women who prefer just to be touched and hugged. And men sometimes misinterpret that. They think that that means that I must perform.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://marmia.aviaryplatform.com/collections/948/collection_resources/105501/file/206262#t=234.13,351.79"},{"id":"https://marmia.aviaryplatform.com/collections/948/collection_resources/105501/file/206262/transcript/48916/annotation/3","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"So I call intimacy. That's right. It's about intimacy. Women want to be intimate. And women men think they have to perform. You know, and I think they have what I call a performance anxiety. Men do. And they need to get more into touch and communication because sex is just communication. It's just one form. Okay. We're going to get into those differences. But we as we did earlier, we're going to invite our audience in. You can call us now at 41, 13, 13. We're going to take as many calls as we can. Well, how do you know if it's love or if it's sex? What if what is the difference? Or is there a line that one can define? It's going to be very difficult in these United States, in North America, to get that definition straight, because we are the media seems to present the love sex syndrome, I call it to equate love with sex. So we're going to have to go back to some of our basic roots. And our basic roots tell us that love has nothing to do with sex. Are we entering a period where relationships are something new? Again, we had the free and loose sex revolution, right? And all of a sudden everybody's talking about relationships. How do I know if I have a good relationship? Well, I'll tell you. AIDS and herpes got our head straight. You know, I think that put us back in focus. But I think the sexual revolution wasn't a revolution at all. I think we were just examining different lifestyles, and we found out the lifestyles that we sort of investigated didn't fit our heritage. And African-Americans going to have to look into that. We can't play monkey see monkey do. We must stay in our heritage in terms of what are the things that we learn.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://marmia.aviaryplatform.com/collections/948/collection_resources/105501/file/206262#t=352.72,452.8"},{"id":"https://marmia.aviaryplatform.com/collections/948/collection_resources/105501/file/206262/transcript/48916/annotation/4","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"But isn't that creating the problems? Because if you if we use your premise, we're not staying in our heritage has created problems for us. Yes, it has. Yes, it has. Because we think we're trying to be like everybody but ourselves. I was just interviewed by a black newspaper in New Jersey, and one of the things I said is African-Americans are suffering from cultural confusion because we are mirroring the society. So what does that mean for us then? What should we be doing that we are not doing? We should get a new definition of sex. And I have one. Okay. Give us my definition of sex. Sex is your self, your total self. From head to toe, from inside to out all of you is a sexual definition because we are gender defined when we are born. I'm not the do not know want to know if we are in Italian when we are born or a Chinese baby. If you're an African-American, she knows you're going to be black. She wants to know if you're a boy or girl. And that is where we have our difficulties, because we have two sets of standards for males and females in black and white America. And that is part of our problem. Must have a definition. You've opened up a can of sexual words. I teach you to have sex. Okay. We're going to take a break and we're going to come back and talk about that and all the other issues raised. Stay with us. We'll be back in just a moment. We're back talking with Dr. Gwendolyn Goolsby Grant of Essence magazine about the question, is it lover's sex? We're going to get our audience into this in a moment. But I've got a question for you.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://marmia.aviaryplatform.com/collections/948/collection_resources/105501/file/206262#t=453.28,613.94"},{"id":"https://marmia.aviaryplatform.com/collections/948/collection_resources/105501/file/206262/transcript/48916/annotation/5","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"And that is, is the marriage making a rebound? You know, over the years, we've heard about the growing statistical increase in divorces and and single parent families and so on and so forth. Is marriage going to make a rebound? Marriage is slowly but surely doing that. The figure, the statistics don't show that. But if you if you were to talk to people like I do on radio one on one, you get the feeling that people are going back to their roots for security because this is a very insecure world. And then we have included venereal disease, and that makes it a dangerous world. And you die now from your diseases. And that anxiety is that coming out and a lot of the therapy that you do as a sex counselor? Yes, very much so. And especially on radio where people can be anonymous and they can say what they want on radio. I really get upfront remarks about how they really feel. Okay, let's try to get some remarks from our viewers at home. There's someone waiting. Hi, You're on City Line. Oh, yes. I'd just like to know. I know we're not supposed to smother our men in today's days and times, but do you think that I'm being insecure? If my men can get up from sex and go play basketball and be with his friends and still say he loves me? What is it that you ask him? What is it that you want from him? Well, a lot of the larger commitment from him as far as his time and being with me. Okay, Give me A, B, and C when you finish having sex. What is it that he does not do that you want him to do? Oh, he's great with the sex.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://marmia.aviaryplatform.com/collections/948/collection_resources/105501/file/206262#t=614.16,710.13"},{"id":"https://marmia.aviaryplatform.com/collections/948/collection_resources/105501/file/206262/transcript/48916/annotation/6","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"No, I'm talking about the act, as Ann Landers called the act in quotes. I'm talking about the after play, not the foreplay. What is it you want from him? To be with me and talk and spend some time at it so that we can share the experience? Right. Have you told him this? Yes, I have. But I try not to be demanding of his time. How do you tell him that when you're angry or when you're upset? So I'm not upset. Okay. I may go and get something for us to drink, right? To nibble on or even turn the musical into something so that, you know, we can relax. What we need to do is tell our partners more of how we feel. They may not always respond right at that moment, but we need to keep the communication lines open. That's so important already. Thank you. CALLER Thank you. Let me ask you something, too, Dr. Grant. And it has to do with the differences between men and women. Right now. I'm hearing this person on the on the phone who's saying that she wants something else after the after and he is fine. It seems he's moving off on men and different men and women relating to it all differently because females and males are socialized differently. We socialize our children differently as as they are males and females. We handle baby infants, male infants differently than we handle female infants. We tend to coddle infant female infants more to kiss them more. And some fathers actually start that handshake at around seven, which I do not go along with. Okay, baby, we invited our audience to participate in this gentleman who has a question right now. My question is, I understand that the statistics show that there are more women than men.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://marmia.aviaryplatform.com/collections/948/collection_resources/105501/file/206262#t=710.82,817.86"},{"id":"https://marmia.aviaryplatform.com/collections/948/collection_resources/105501/file/206262/transcript/48916/annotation/7","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"And you were saying that relationships are both. Now, how is that going to work? If there is one report, say there are 223 women for every one of 100 men. I would odds to me I was on w I was on Libby radio in New York City, an African-American radio station. And we were talking about that in terms of the options that women have. And one of the things that came out of that discussion is the fact that we're going to have to cross what we call class lines. I wrote an article in Essence magazine about that in April that sisters are going to have to start looking at the worker, the black working man, as a husband material, whereas the black people can't afford class. We can't afford snobbish behavior because we're victims of the system, and we're going to have to start crossing lines. What about the whole issue of man sharing as we got into man sharing also and we also got into polygamy? What do you do? You support the whole concept of men? I rather I rather and I give my value judgments because people's lifestyles, I don't give. I don't give that on abortion either, because I feel that the situation must be dealt with according to what's happening with that person at the time. So that is a possible way. It is a possible way. In New York City, there are a lot of instances of polygamy going on. Okay. Let's take another call from home High caller, you are in touch with Dr. Grant. Hello? Yes, go ahead, please. Okay. First of all, I say hello. Hello? First of all, I'd like to say hello and happy Mother's Day to all the mothers. Okay. Thank you, Mariah Pinkney.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://marmia.aviaryplatform.com/collections/948/collection_resources/105501/file/206262#t=818.31,914.18"},{"id":"https://marmia.aviaryplatform.com/collections/948/collection_resources/105501/file/206262/transcript/48916/annotation/8","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"Thank you very much. Okay. I want to find out if it's just sex as far as my relationship with my friend. Um, I care a lot for him. He does these things to show me that. But it's just the fact that just not enough. What kinds of things does he show you? Okay. He gave me flowers and also gave me a card for Valentine's Day. But we've been together for a long time, and I know there's plenty of women out there for the man, but I just want to, you know, just not just have a just a sex thank the I what? I want my feelings to know that he still has feelings for me. Care. Right. What are the things you need to do is just to discuss things openly. We tend to discuss it with our girlfriends, don't we, girl? Lady? We tell them all about what he didn't do. And we don't tell him a thing because we're afraid we're going to bruise his ego. Well, my mother said you can get more flies with honey than you can with vinegar. It's the way you tell a man. I tell my husband anything I want him to know. But it's the way I tell him. I do a lot of pillow talk, you know? And if I would like for him to move this way, I whispered in this very feminine, very loving manner. Move over here. You know, it's the way you tell it, you know, And you can't tell it when you're angry in a rage. What you do is you say, I'm very angry right now. I don't want to talk about this, but, you know, tomorrow or the next day, I want to discuss this with you. You know what we do? We hide from our feelings from each other.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://marmia.aviaryplatform.com/collections/948/collection_resources/105501/file/206262#t=914.87,1005.27"},{"id":"https://marmia.aviaryplatform.com/collections/948/collection_resources/105501/file/206262/transcript/48916/annotation/9","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"We we have another question over here. Hi. My question is this. I've found in a lot of men nowadays, you cannot have a friendly, loving relationship without having the sexual act. Why is this so? Because men are taught to be sexual aggressors. They think they're supposed to. I remember a very funny story about my cousin. He was on his way to a party, and he said I went by this house with this guy and we were dancing with these girls. But I was going to see my girl and I was after this girl. And I finally asked her for, you know what? And she said, Yes. I was just asking you see? You see how he was just asking. She didn't know how to play the game. She said yes. All right. So men tend to think they're supposed to be sexual aggressors. So what you need to talk to do is talk about that. But in 1986, though, women are just as aggressive as men in terms of telling men what they want. I heard about it. You heard about the sisters are about we're kind of developing a monkey, see the monkey do behavior in lots of ways. We're dying of lung cancer now, more more so than men, almost women, because we seem to mirror their behavior. Is that bad? Is that bad? I mean, I know lung cancer that I'm having with my own self. Be true, you know, be yourself. And that's a big job. So how do you how do you deal with this whole issue of what the young lady talked about in terms of, well, I'd like a good relationship with you. I'm not talking about sex. You need to talk it out. You know what we do? We don't want to talk about sex.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://marmia.aviaryplatform.com/collections/948/collection_resources/105501/file/206262#t=1006.13,1100.16"},{"id":"https://marmia.aviaryplatform.com/collections/948/collection_resources/105501/file/206262/transcript/48916/annotation/10","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"You know, we don't want to say the word. Because what we do is when we say the word sex, it conjures up sexual intercourse. But what I want to do is change your mindset. When I say sex, I mean myself. Okay, audience, I say sex. You say sell sex there. Say I've changed your image already. This is the image. Yes, it's our imagery is incorrect about sex. It's your self. We're going to come back and do a little bit more in that image area and find out a little bit more from Dr. Gray. So what? Now, here's this week's community calendar. Hello, my name is Suzanne Lacey. The wives of the Baltimore Orioles invite you to attend a fashion show and luncheon on Saturday, May 17, at the Reisterstown Road, Blue Cross North. The cocktail hour will begin at 1130, and Bamberg will present a New York fashion show at 1230 during the luncheon. There will be door prizes and raffles. Proceeds will benefit cystic fibrosis. For further ticket information, call 6663616. Hello, my name is Cynthia. The Belmont Elementary School is proud to announce its first school reunion on Sunday, May the 25th, at the school 1406 North Alamo Street. From 4 to 8 p.m.. All former principals, teachers, students and staff are welcome to be part of the festivities. It's free and we're looking forward to a grand time. For further information, call the school at 3960578. Hello, my name is Richard Green. The Black Law Students Association of the University of Baltimore will be holding its senior awards banquet at Alumni Reunion Saturday, May 31st, at the Sheraton Inner Harbor. From 6:30 p.m. to 2 a.m., the guest speaker will be the Honorable L. Douglas Wallace, lieutenant governor of the state of Virginia.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://marmia.aviaryplatform.com/collections/948/collection_resources/105501/file/206262#t=1100.55,1363.86"},{"id":"https://marmia.aviaryplatform.com/collections/948/collection_resources/105501/file/206262/transcript/48916/annotation/11","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"Tickets and further information Call 6253078. If your group or organization would like to announce an event, please write us in care of City Line. WJC TV Television Hill, Baltimore, Maryland 212, one, one. Or call us for further information at 46600013. Between the hours of nine and five. Well, they are having a fabulous time talking about Sex on City Land, Dr. Gwendolyn Goldsby Grant. And we've got a caller waiting from from home. Hi. CALLER, you on City Line? Hello. Yes, go ahead, please. Okay. Okay. You cannot listen to yourself. You're going to slow us down. First, I'd like to say happy Mother's Day to all the mothers. Thank you. Please go ahead with your question. I'm going to have to clip you off if you don't respond. First of all, me and my wife, we have very good, friendly relationship. But I feel a lot of times she doesn't show me a lot of affection. And you know what we tend to do? We tend to treat others the way we were treated. And sometimes persons did not receive affection in their primal environment, mother and father and child. And they seem to respond to that. Again, you need to talk about your need for more affection to your wife. She may be in a bind psychologically about that. Yeah. Have you talked with her about your desires and your needs? Yes, I've talked to and well, we talked several times about it, and she tells me all these things that I want to make love to all the time. Why not? Well, she's doing what we said before. She's interpreting the data, the touch of data as sex the way some males do, you see. So you've got to talk to every touch is not for sex.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://marmia.aviaryplatform.com/collections/948/collection_resources/105501/file/206262#t=1364.7,1504.25"},{"id":"https://marmia.aviaryplatform.com/collections/948/collection_resources/105501/file/206262/transcript/48916/annotation/12","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"Okay. So it means communication. Okay, caller, I'm talking to you when I'm touched. Thank you. Yes, we have another question. Hello, Dr. Quinn. Happy Mother's Day to my mother, too. That's nice. You said before that men are usually aggressive at the same time when they become involved with the young woman, they appear to be emotional Also, until something occurs and they become disappointed. Their ideas of grandeur, perhaps that you may want to marry them or commitment. That's what you're talking about. Not necessarily commitment, but that you're a different person then maybe commitment, you're a different person from what they perceived you should be in the beginning. I think a Dr. Joyce brothers say that men now are getting spoiled because they're in the majority, so they and they tend not to want to commit. But I think brothers will commit if you have what I call the honest plan, the open plan where you're not playing games with each other, I'm afraid of the game playing. You know, I would maybe I misread your question. I thought you were going to say that once the sex act has occurred, then men change it. That's what I thought, too. No, I'm not saying that. I'm saying that once you are no longer interested in a man, he becomes more emotional than he was. Aggressive, perhaps. In other words, after you dump him all of a sudden. I was least ready to say, Well, wait a minute, now let's deal with the bad person. When you were an angel, you'll be boring. Right, darling? He's suffering from rejection. What do you want from him? He's speaking to his pain, you know. And that pain is not to do with you. It has to do with how he's feeling.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://marmia.aviaryplatform.com/collections/948/collection_resources/105501/file/206262#t=1504.81,1616.74"},{"id":"https://marmia.aviaryplatform.com/collections/948/collection_resources/105501/file/206262/transcript/48916/annotation/13","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"He just projects it on to you and then don't like to be rejected. Oh, no, no. They do suffer a lot of it. Who does? I don't understand why they can't just deal with it and remain. Well, all just human, that's why. Okay. Okay. Thank you. We got another call from home. Hi. Call. Are you on City Line? Oh, yeah. I'd like to know. Um, I know that, um, she writes for Essence magazine, and she also has a radio show. But what I wanted to know is, do she have sexual therapy with people on a daily basis? You all one on one? No, I do more group work. I do group work. Not the one on one model, but I'm a group. Okay, well, what I wanted to know is that the people that go through sexual therapy, do women actually reach an orgasm? And what are the percentages of the people that go to the therapy coming to orgasm focused? You know, I really think that's a mechanical kind of thing. Well, we need to get in is to what one of the floor managers said, Pat, take all of me. All right. And I think we need to get away from the focus. Sex is between your ears, not between your legs, so that it's more of a total nurturing. And now, once you get in touch with yourself and know yourself, your body will do what you want it to do. Okay. Now, let's talk about a new emphasis that's been taking place in the past couple of years or so, it seems, and that sex and the over 60 person. Yes. You like that? Yes, I like that, because I'm going to speak down with Fort Magruder and for the Riverside Hospital of Newport News, Virginia, on May 22nd, I'm going to be talking about the problems of the elderly.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://marmia.aviaryplatform.com/collections/948/collection_resources/105501/file/206262#t=1617.25,1712.14"},{"id":"https://marmia.aviaryplatform.com/collections/948/collection_resources/105501/file/206262/transcript/48916/annotation/14","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"We think sex is for the young. I'm here to tell you my father, before he died, he died a couple of years ago, was a very sexual person after my mother died. And I never thought of my father as a man who got an erection or anything like that. Well, I'm here to tell you, you do not die after 65. And we need to begin to see older people as sexual persons. Okay. We're highlighting a lot of issues here today. We really wish we had more time to go into them. Let's take another call from home. QUESTIONER Hi. You're on City Line and in touch with Dr. Grant. Good morning and happy Mother's Day. Thank you. I'd like good suggestion on how to improve my attitude toward the males after crossing the social line. I have attempted to do that, but in doing it, I find myself under pressure to understand the fact that he needs to work 24 hours a day, which doesn't leave very much time for myself being having a educational background and making that a difference between he and I. He stopped to understand that about me, but I can't seem to grip it. I feel insecure about where he is, what he's doing. Do you have any suggestions? Yes. That has nothing to do with him and has a lot to do with you. So you're saying that has to do with him? That has to do with what's going on inside yourself. You need to know why you're upsetting yourself over what you think he's doing. You see, what you're doing is you're the incorrect focus. Look into yourself for those answers. Take an inventory of you rather than of him. Because it's never the problem that defeats us.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://marmia.aviaryplatform.com/collections/948/collection_resources/105501/file/206262#t=1712.77,1808.38"},{"id":"https://marmia.aviaryplatform.com/collections/948/collection_resources/105501/file/206262/transcript/48916/annotation/15","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"It's our attitude toward the problem. Thank you. Speaking about attitude, I was talking to a female friend of mine the other day and she was talking about a problem she had a friend of hers had and she accidently slipped up and said something about men. That was a total generalization, right? You said, Whoops, I'm sorry. No, no offense taken, but it's an attitude. It's an attitude that I guess men have about women and women. We have we live we live out these stereotypes of each other. You know, we never get to the real me and the real you. And one of the things to do, one of the ways to do it, is what we're doing on City Line. Open it up. Segregation, not pornography. That's a 42nd street mindset. Sex is yourself. And we should be able to discuss that the way we discuss how we got what toothpaste we're going to purchase. Okay. Now, your column we have just under a minute left. We want to get to your column. It's called Just Because It's in essence, it's an advice column. The history of the advice column come through. Ann Landers. But I don't write that kind of column. I consider myself a mental health educator to educate people how to handle themselves. I don't give advice because I think you run out of advice, you know. But I am basically a schoolteacher. I started out that way. You know, I started out as a schoolteacher. So the educator is still the leader is there in me. Okay. Oh, Howard University is still in. Dr. Gwendolyn Goldsmith, Grant, thank you for coming to City Line media psychologist, certified sex therapist and radio, radio personality and everything. A mother of three children, and my husband, who is a president of the City Council of Newark, New Jersey.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://marmia.aviaryplatform.com/collections/948/collection_resources/105501/file/206262#t=1808.74,1905.67"},{"id":"https://marmia.aviaryplatform.com/collections/948/collection_resources/105501/file/206262/transcript/48916/annotation/16","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"Thank you so much for coming by and enlightening us today. I had a great time. We're going to take a break and come right back with the news camp and team right here. Good afternoon. Topping today's news cap. With Preakness fever hanging heavy in the Baltimore atmosphere. Horses seem to be a common topic of conversation. And so appropriately today on news cap, we take a look at black participation in the sport of horse racing locally. Oh. Oh. Oh. Oh. Oh. Ask any horse racing enthusiast and they'll tell you that blacks have been involved in the sport of horse racing since its inception in the early days of Maryland horse racing. There were very few black owners. Many blacks were either not interested or did not have the financial resources. There were, however, many black jockeys, grooms, trainers, exercise boys and hot walkers, whatever their reasons. Many were attracted to the sport, like former jockeys Karl Griggs and Lewis Scott. Well, I was in Virginia on a farm and a man, a woman exercising more than I comes to exercise and horse and. They don't want to be a jockey. And I said yes. This around about 32. I was 16. $30 a month. As your salary. Then you get $10 a month to ride it. I was always small and I was too small to do anything else. So my father, he worked around horses. So he suggested that you know me to live in the guess. You just want to try to be a jockey. I have never known. I mean, there is a rich tradition of black Marylanders in the horse racing industry. Historian Serena G. Mills, author of The History of Park Heights and Old Hilltop, shares the story of a maryland historical figure, Eubie Blake, at the age of 12.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://marmia.aviaryplatform.com/collections/948/collection_resources/105501/file/206262#t=1906.15,2129.75"},{"id":"https://marmia.aviaryplatform.com/collections/948/collection_resources/105501/file/206262/transcript/48916/annotation/17","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"Became an exercise boy because he put his age up to 14 so that he could work. Eubie was from a Baltimore family and his mother had started him learning piano music. But he wasn't too keen on it at that time. However, in the course of time that he worked at Pimlico, he was an exercise boy. Baltimore in Bulacan hails from a proud tradition of racehorse owners and trainers. One of her more prominent ancestors is jockey Isaac Murphy, that you have during our Kentucky Derby that never was defeated in the Kentucky Derby. He and my father were first cousin sister's children, and of course, that makes him my second cousin. And my brother, which was the oldest boy in the family, he followed my father's footsteps. He was exercise boy. And then he went to Jackie. Which you went to Washington, Virginia. And that's where he learned and when he came back. The people took a contract I him and then he started run the first race. He rode great at Pimlico. He wanted. Mrs. Khan has devoted an entire room of her home to act as a museum. Historical photographs line the walls depicting a lost era. The horse racing industry, like many others, has had its share of discrimination. Those who frequent the track remember those days? Well, I remember when blacks wasn't allowed in the clubhouse and also in the other parts of the racetrack. You could almost count them, but now you can't count them because you'd run out of numbers. Nevertheless, the industry has consistently proven that if you are capable of doing your job well, nothing else matters. The black and white is all the same. If they own the horses or if they train the horses, they are all the same.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://marmia.aviaryplatform.com/collections/948/collection_resources/105501/file/206262#t=2131.25,2277.61"},{"id":"https://marmia.aviaryplatform.com/collections/948/collection_resources/105501/file/206262/transcript/48916/annotation/18","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"They all got to do the same thing and that is to train the horses. As the industry grew. Noteworthy changes were incorporated. Blacks began working in highly visible administrative positions. Dr. Ernest J. Colvin is the first and only black to serve on the Maryland Racing Commission, a position which is appointed by the governor. We had more blacks involved in working for the commission and, you know, their visibility itself would promote more black. There's black people getting involved in the game because sometime you can get the feeling that it's not a black person's game. And I think it is much a black person games anyone else. Today, many horse racing buffs believe that with educational avenues more readily available, many blacks have overlooked horse racing and have chosen viable high tech professions instead. Our race is going on for different other fields. More blacks are going into the computer industry because it means more money. It means more education to the younger people. For those who want to become involved in racing, Dr. Koven offers some viable suggestions. Well, I think young people, first of all, need to go to the races, look at the game, be around race horses. I would say going the backside. The backside is where the trainers and the grooms work with horses and learn all they can about racing, about the horse himself and about racing. Then they can decide if they want to get in the game. And for those who want to go to the races to make a few quick bucks, Bula Kahn offers these words of advice. Nobody knows anything about a horse, they can tell you. But the breeding of a horse and the way they train in the morning. A time like that. But when they turn that horse loose on that racetrack.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://marmia.aviaryplatform.com/collections/948/collection_resources/105501/file/206262#t=2278.09,2386.42"},{"id":"https://marmia.aviaryplatform.com/collections/948/collection_resources/105501/file/206262/transcript/48916/annotation/19","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"You don't know if wish for the best. You bet on it to win. But win because nobody. No. They buried up to the minute. For anyone interested in learning more about the sport of horse racing, they can begin that education this upcoming weekend. When the Preakness comes to town. And that is today's news cap. I'm T Monte Moore of City Line up next. Have a good afternoon. Welcome back to City Line. In an effort to get our minds off of sex, we're going to we're going to change this. And I know it's very hard for something, but we're going to switch gears a little bit and get into something that ladies do to help make themselves more sexy, I guess. And we're going to take a peeling, of course, and we're going to take a look at some hot fashions designed by the one and only Patricia Johnson. Welcome, Beatrice. What what got you started? What made you decide you wanted to design hats? Well, I started off as make hands as a hobby and see, I'm the church girl. And I would come into church with different hats almost every Sunday, and people would come to me and asked me, Where did I get the hat from? I was sad, is that it must have. Then people became very interested in my hair and I say, Why don't I go into business? Because people are very interested. And I thought I would make a lot of money just off of making hats. And that's how I got started and get started. 1990. And how long ago was that? Three years ago. Oh, look, this is fabulous. The one that you have on is absolutely gorgeous. And we can tell right now that the models that are wearing your hats have some gorgeous designs as well.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://marmia.aviaryplatform.com/collections/948/collection_resources/105501/file/206262#t=2388.45,2582.55"},{"id":"https://marmia.aviaryplatform.com/collections/948/collection_resources/105501/file/206262/transcript/48916/annotation/20","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"Let's look at those. Tell us a little bit about the staff. Well, this is a wide brimmed hat with the Mellon design veil, and it is worn for even fashions or formal wear. Take a look. Just marvelous. Gorgeous. This is a horse head bray, head set in frame for the sequence design in front. And this is for for bars or banquets. This is not annoying. I had to wear it every day. So it's a fancy topper? Yes. Something in the way out. This is a regular. Has box had the sequence on the top of the head or a death in sequence with a real horse hair design in the back. This is the small frame hit with Pearl. What is this? Beige? Yes. Cream. Beige. Okay. This is kind of a way out our head. What inspired you and this one? Well, I just love the flowers. I just put the photo to look different from other heads. Looks like Easter to me. Yes. With them and in front with the little balls back. This is a small frame. Had the yellow veil design front and the side. Where does that material sat? Yes, that gorgeous popcorn will. Would you call me? Popcorn? Okay. This is a wide brimmed hat with pink diamonds. France with a veil. Wow. Sounds very romantic. That's okay. Well, this is the way out of. Something that I've put together. I thought, look, I thought it would be different from other heads. This is a honey cone head that looks almost like a hairdo, except for the color. It could be worn at parties. It's like something appropriate for Patti LaBelle. Yeah. Look, if this is the red sequins head with the melon design in the front honeycomb design, this could be worn parties, banquets.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://marmia.aviaryplatform.com/collections/948/collection_resources/105501/file/206262#t=2582.97,2731.84"},{"id":"https://marmia.aviaryplatform.com/collections/948/collection_resources/105501/file/206262/transcript/48916/annotation/21","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"But not to church. Well, there are some people to wear sequins, rather. People wear sequins. Had the church. Okay. People want to be different. This is another sequins hat, plane pull back pass sequence design in the back. I love the way that's wrapped around your hair. It's very definite. Gorgeous. Okay. This is a pink drum hat with pearls around it, with a melon design in the back, with the veil and a front to compliment the head. Long veil or veil, still big, are they? Yes. People. Many people love veils. This is a pink and white hat. White specks on it. The pink. Design in front with a white rose. Okay. This is a plain, large brim, light blue hat with a bold design in the back trimmed in ribbons. So this one, you just decided on something very simple, but alas, simple. This is a sequence. Turquoise hair, the veil, horse hair design on the side. This could also be when it went to church. Okay. You had to often say a lot about the individual. Yes. This is a sequence where sequence design has a large pool on the side with blue specks. It seems to me, though, Patrice, that you have fun with me. Don't you write fun when you make a design that has. This is a headband. Honeycomb Headband and headbands are out now. Oh, this is gorgeous. And I thought the honeycomb would be something different. That's what we've got to take a break and we'll be back in just a minute. Please stay with us to. Words. Hi, Harold Anthony here. Leonard Brown, Reginald MacArthur, Ricky Lewis and Larry MacArthur, better known as the controllers, first sang together in an eight member gospel group while still youngsters. These brothers and cousins were bound to a quintet by the time they were in the ninth grade, and they had their first regional hit by the time they were in high school.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://marmia.aviaryplatform.com/collections/948/collection_resources/105501/file/206262#t=2734.31,3059.43"},{"id":"https://marmia.aviaryplatform.com/collections/948/collection_resources/105501/file/206262/transcript/48916/annotation/22","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"In 1975, the Quartet was signed to a Birmingham based record company, and their first album yielded the internationally successful smash hit. Somebody's Got to Win, Somebody's Got to Lose. The Controller is exhibit the individual talents of each member. And when it comes to showmanship, exuberant choreography and the smooth harmony, the controllers are one of the most gifted groups in the music industry. Here they are with their latest hit called Stay. Oh. The same. And we made, you know, you great. Someone so smart. You're so easy. Keep the fire burning. Can't get enough of you. Love me. I have no desire. Bye bye. It's always. Yes. You saw. My body journey then getting to. Yeah. The. You. Say you'll stay with. You've got that special something. Something, man, that sets the fire. I got to tell the whole. You're setting up a. Back. You just tell me. That was the smooth harmonic sounds of the controllers. Listen, if you're wondering whether any not anything is going on exciting in Charm City, it gives me great pleasure to inform you that our famed Baltimore School for the Arts is in the process of presenting their spring fever performances. The performances will be going on now through May 28 and will culminate the year's work by the students. The theater department will present. Are you ready for this list? LA Strata Aristophanes timeless satire of war making and lovemaking. The dance department will present a program of classical ballet, modern and jazz dance. The music department will present a series of concerts with highlights, including a joint concert by the Annapolis Brass Quintet and the School for the Arts. Brass. Quintet and the Visual Arts Department will hold two exhibitions. Tickets for these performances support the school's visiting artists and production and exhibition programs.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://marmia.aviaryplatform.com/collections/948/collection_resources/105501/file/206262#t=3060.06,3400.11"},{"id":"https://marmia.aviaryplatform.com/collections/948/collection_resources/105501/file/206262/transcript/48916/annotation/23","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"For further information, call 3961185. And if you're seeking employment, then the Pratt Free Library is planning a job hunting strategy workshop. The workshop will be held at the library, located at 400 Cathedral Street from 530 to 8 p.m. on Wednesday, May 21st. To register or to obtain further information, call 3965394. Also, if you'd like to be a part of the biggest party in history, take part in the Hands Across America. Project a part of the USA for Africa campaign. The joining of hands symbolizes a commitment, and on May 25th, some 6 million people across the nation will hold hands to show their commitment to fighting hunger and homelessness. Each space in line cost $10, and the companies and organizations around town are urged to purchase miles. For more information on this event, call five four, seven 2400. Or if you wish to join the line or make a pledge, call one 800 USA 9000. Listen. Has anyone ever told you that you resemble or resemble a famous movie star? Well, if so, you'll be interested to know that on Wednesday, May 14th, at the Harbor Place Ampitheater from 1 to 2 p.m., Candy promotion is holding a Hollywood look alike contest during Preakness week. That's right. If you look like Eddie Murphy, Kenny Rogers, Tina Turner, or some other famous Hollywood type, then you won't want to miss this afternoon of fun when Hollywood comes to Baltimore. Contestants will be judged by a panel of distinguished judges, and prizes will include a contract as a movie, extra free movie tickets, free dinner, and a host of other fabulous prizes. Animal look alikes will not be accepted. So if you look like Mighty Joe Young, you can sit this one out. You can reserve yourself a place in the line of contestants and get more information by calling 547068, eight.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://marmia.aviaryplatform.com/collections/948/collection_resources/105501/file/206262#t=3401.04,3505.62"},{"id":"https://marmia.aviaryplatform.com/collections/948/collection_resources/105501/file/206262/transcript/48916/annotation/24","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"And with that, I'll be looking forward to seeing you here next week. I'm Harold Anthony, saying have a great Sunday. Then a delightful show for us today. And as we told you at the end of the segment with Dr. Grant, we're going to have her back in the fall. And by the way, if you'd like to see more of Patrice Johnson's hats, they will be on display during the show tonight at Odell's at 7:00. And I'd also like I'm going. Oh, definitely. I'd like to mention to you quickly about the holiday memorial fund there, having a ceremonial tribute at Khartoum State College on May 17th and a champagne party at Godfrey Godfrey's famous ballroom on Charles Street. If you want more information, you can call 3673501. And since we are fast running out of time, next week's show is about blacks and the capitalist system. And we will be talking to William Reed out of Washington, D.C. about the role that blacks ought to have in making money. That's right. Right now, before we run out of time, we'd like to introduce to you the newest member of the WG ETV staff. This the son of our director, Paul, and his wife, Joanna, who, by the way, happens to work in our traffic department. Paul and Joanna have a lovely young child. There he is. Richard Theodore. Why, Teddy? That's why. It's Pennywise. And welcome to the world, Major. I want to congratulate Paul. He hasn't had any sleep for this past week, so please bear with him. And you're going to be late. That I congratulate him. Yeah, exactly. But that's great. Paul. Congratulations. You and Joanna. That's our show for today. Thanks for being with us. Oh, okay. We also wanted to mention that the hats were also available at Fallon's, and indeed, they were in the models that you saw wearing those gorgeous hats are from Travis Winky studio.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://marmia.aviaryplatform.com/collections/948/collection_resources/105501/file/206262#t=3506.01,3620.18"},{"id":"https://marmia.aviaryplatform.com/collections/948/collection_resources/105501/file/206262/transcript/48916/annotation/25","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"Right. And we want to thank Valens also for the fashions underneath the hats. That's right. Get everything out. Yes. And who are you? I'm thinking about me, I think. And I'm Jackie Hall. Have a happy Mother's Day. 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